Ashley's Married Dating Playground - Top 10 Affair Guideline Rules
Rule #1: Trust No One, Except your affair partner
Criminals make this same mistake. They like to tell people about the crimes they have committed. Some criminals have gone as far as bragging about robbing banks and they all pretty much end up getting caught because somewhere along the way someone threw them under the bus. If you decide to have an affair, the only people that should know about it are YOU and YOUR AFFAIR PARTNER. Make sure that you do not let any of your friends, colleagues, or family members know about what you are doing. If you need to cover your tracks, use a service like Alibi Network, who will NEVER throw you under the bus. Make sure that when you engage in married dating, you are discreet.
Rule #2: Tiger Text - Cover Your Tracks
A lot of people who have an affair are caught because of text messages left in their phone. You can avoid this problem with Tiger Texting. With Tiger Text, text messages are automatically deleted upon a metric specified by you. You can have the messages automatically deleted from BOTH mobile phones upon being read, 5 minutes after being read, etc. The company claims to have nothing to do with being a reference to the Tiger Woods affair, or Tiger Woods. The domain name was initially registered in early 2004 further backing up that claim since the Tiger Woods affair did not happen until 2009.
Rule #3: Credit Cards - If you use one with us we bill it discreetly
More and more household finances are controlled by women. At Ashley Madison, we know how important it is to bill your credit card with something that your partner will not recognize should they accidentally come across the statement. When you go to a strip club, they bill your credit card discretely as well. This is critical to maintaining the perception that all is well. The biggest mistake you can make is putting something obvious on a credit card like a hotel room or gifts. Although this rule is simple and obvious, many men make the mistake of using a credit card for these things. When a hotel room or an expensive gift purchase shows up on the credit card it becomes really hard to explain since there is a direct tie between that place of business and you.
Rule #4: Never make empty promises (IE: "I will leave my spouse.", if you won't)
Be honest with your affair partner. Obviously if your affair partner met you through here, she knows you are married. If she knows you are married and you have no intentions of leaving your spouse, don't lead your playmate on. Your playmate should be okay with the scenario that you plan to stay married. Married dating playmates generally enjoy their space as well and are not always seeking to be in a committed relationship.
Rule #5: Phone calls and Phone bills - Cover your Tracks
Whose name is the phone bill in? If it is your name, never save your playmate's number into your phone, either save it with a name of the opposite sex, or make sure you memorize it. If the phone bill is in your married partner's name, you better stick to email and using your work phone line. Which brings us to our next rule.
Rule #6: Emails and Internet History - Cover your Tracks
Whatever email account you talk to your spouse or significant other with, let her have access to it. It builds trust with her. Keep a second email account with a DIFFERENT PROVIDER just for talking to your affair partner. Make sure you log out. By keeping a different email account at a different email provider such as Anonymous Speech, or Hide My Ass you can keep the registration of the account anonymous.
Make sure you clear your history also called cache, if you are searching for "affairs" on Google, make sure you clear your Google toolbar as well. The link above will explain how to clear your cache on virtually every Internet browser.
Rule #7: Be discreet - Take your playmate far away from where you live
Ever notice how you occasionally run into people you know at the oddest times and places. You could be sitting at a stop light and you look over and see your neighbor, or you are shopping at the mall and see your wife's coworker. When meeting and spending time with your affair partner, a coffee shop nearest to your place of residence or work is probably the last place you should go. Try meeting for coffee at a place on the other side of town, or dinner someplace that people close to you would never be at.
Rule #8: Have fun. Don't become obsessive. Are you looking for love or fun?
An affair should be about letting loose and enjoying your time together. Don't become possessive and obsessive with your cheating partner. Again, married dating is about being able to keep that space between you and your playmate which keeps your playmate wanting more. Playing hard to get is part of what makes a partner want to continue to have that connection with you because when the "good time" are few and far between it makes them all that more memorable and enjoyable. The more you are able to keep your playmate at a distance, the easier it will be to continue to see him/her. If you are looking for fun, don't lead your cheating partner into believing that you are going to leave your spouse.
Rule #9: Always double check - Cover your tracks
When you are finished going out or meeting with your married dating partner, you should check to make sure there are not any lipstick marks, no objects or trash left in your vehicle, and (RULE #2) texts in your phone confirming the get together. Making sure that your appearance is "the usual" and that there is nothing left behind that you would have to explain later is very important to making sure that your discreet love affair stays unnoticed.
Rule #10: Avoid having an affair with a friend, friend's partner, or coworker
One of the benefits with joining Ashley Madison is that the affair playmates you encounter are not already in you or your spouse's life. An affair with a coworker, a friend's partner, or someone you already know will make things much more complicated if it is discovered. By choosing an affair partner who has no existing connections to your existing life, you eliminate many of the potential problems that can come about later on.